just be normal

im gonna be frank here.

i wish people would not give other people credit for their life experiences.
there is no excuse for being a lesser person.
when the areas become grey, the weak see black. the slightly less myopic see white.


i really dont care if ur mom or dad died
u have 3 children to raise and u're the eldest kid and took on more responsibility blahblahblah. i dont care if you were abused by your boyfriend or had a difficult childhood. worse, i dont care if u're poor and cant afford to eat at a decent restaurant once a month.
so people who are like this. put a lid on it.
people who have friends like this. stop defending them. people like you create the pity they feel comfortable in and where they find acceptance in life.


move on. be kind be magnanimous. you are not your past. you are the sum of all the good things in your life. shame on you if all u can remember are the bad ones. welcome to the real world of ups and downs. be who u wanna see. be the change in the world you wanna see. stop wallowing. stop finding excuses for bad behaviour. excuses are like strings on fire. they burn out eventually.

im not saying be me. im not saying be perfect. im not perfect.
but what im saying is. i wanna see you. not the scarred pitiful peace of shit.
the person u can be. u came here to be. and the person you wanna be.
please. if i wanna see sad broken and self-deprecating, i see it whenever i fight myself. i dont share it with the world because its not me. the real me is capable of making the people around me happy.


if the whole world judges you because of some bad ass shit u did.
or some shit some bad ass did to you.
come to me. because im your shot at redemption.
i cant judge. i see the best in you.
so come to me. dont screw up. and be whoever u can be.
the person u knew yesterday isnt the person he is today.
we just assume he is because we need to.