paranoid android

i just posted. nvm.
i find myself compelled to blog about this. to share with you out there what i think about some pre conceived notions people in general have about dating.

just happened to talk about dating and stuff.
ju: now minimum height is 1.8
to exclude a guy based purely on physical characteristics would be narrowig the search drastically.
cai: minimum cup size C.
okay but im just kidding.

ju later said that it not neccessarily had to be exclusive if he were secure and what nots.
thats fine. but i'd have guessed many girls would also have such requirements for the guys to fill before getting the first date even.

then comes to big one.
ju: you're still young.
ju: u can date until you're 30
cai: you're only a year older man, dont tell me im young. least not from you!haha.
ju: you havent even university.
ju: YOU ONLY REALLY GROW UP IN THERE.
cai: !
ju: okay joking.

im not grown up??. haha. its funny to know people actually think that of a 21 year old guy.
she's only a year older. and i really felt the age difference there. hit me like a brick.

army in two years to most was a waste of time. and i agree. but i not totally didnt get any -takeaways- from it. some things university cant teach was learnt.
growing is a ongoing process. nowhere do you get quantum amounts of growth. not in uni or army. or even at work.
i know shit about uni. and she knows shit about army.
so abit hard to make comparisons lah.

but what i do know.
is that when it comes to dating. you gotta go in with two eyes open.
its like how u only enjoy talking to a person whos listening. and vice versa.
preconceived notions about the two biggest complexities which exist must be done away with.

LOVE, AND LIFE.


ju is a joy to chat with. cos shes got a mind of her own and intellectually stimulating.
proven by keeping me up at 3am. =]